When I talk to my friends during recess, there are some people who for some reason enjoy the conversation. It's not just people who say a lot of interesting things. People who feel safe when they are around are also people who are easy to like.
The kind of speech people like is not about showing off. It is about listening and choosing words carefully.
listen till the end
Sometimes you want to cover your story while the other person is talking. However, if you listen to the end, the other person will feel relieved. Simply replying, "So what happened?" or "That's what I thought," will make it easier to continue the conversation.
express your feelings briefly
When something unpleasant happens, it may be easier to reach the other person by saying, "I feel sad when you say that," rather than forcefully saying, "Why would you do that?" Practicing expressing your feelings briefly will help you protect your friendships.
When listening to someone's story, try asking just once, "So what happened?" instead of "So?"
Even at Digital Kodomo BASE, creating works and programming is not done by just one person. Listen, communicate, consult. The way they talk makes many activities more enjoyable.