When you see someone popular in your class, you may feel jealous. It's because she's surrounded by everyone, she's smiling a lot, and she looks like she's having fun. But popularity is not the only thing that will be important in life for a long time. When it comes to messages with friends and interactions on SNS, the way you say something can change how it is received.
Trust and popularity are not the same, and trust usually matters more over time.
Popularity is fleeting, trust is fleeting.
If you say something interesting, the atmosphere will be lively. But hurtful laughter reduces trust. On the other hand, keeping small promises increases trust even if they are less obvious. Trust accumulates little by little like savings.
It is decided in a place that cannot be seen
Clean up when the teacher isn't looking. Don't say bad things when your friends aren't around. Return what you borrowed. It's these hard-to-see actions that define a person's character.
Make one small promise and keep it. “Putting back what you used” and “Being on time” are enough.
At Digital Kodomo BASE, everyone uses computers and tools. Continuing to be a fun place requires trustworthy behavior. Rather than aiming to be popular, try aiming for someone you can feel comfortable with.