The internet and apps have their benefits, but they also come with hidden dangers. There's no need to be too scared, but the more things seem to be okay, the more important it is to have the ability to stop and think.
Let them know that even if you delete posts and photos from your hands, they may remain on their screens and records.
Even if it disappears from your screen, it's not the end
Once you send or post something, the other person may see it, save it, or screenshot it. It's hard to say, "It didn't happen because I deleted it."
There is also strong judgment that is not made in the first place.
It's safer to think, "Can I put this out?" than to assume that you'll delete it later. Not releasing it is also a good choice to protect yourself.
Before posting or sending, please ask, "Is it okay if I can't delete it later?" 'Let's think about it just once.
At Digital Kodomo BASE, we value being able to discern and choose rather than being afraid. Safety is not something you have to endure, but rather a power that you can use effectively over a long period of time.