When things don't go well, we sometimes feel like saying, "It's that person's fault." Of course, there are times when it's not just your fault.
Blaming other people makes it harder to notice what you can improve next for yourself.
Strategy rather than blaming
Rather than thinking about who is at fault, you can move forward by thinking about what to do next. Change your preparation, change the way you listen, keep your distance. There are things you can choose for yourself.
When something goes wrong, the instinct to blame others or outside circumstances is natural. But blaming keeps you stuck. When you shift focus to what you can actually control or change, you regain your power and open the door to real improvement.
Choose one thing you didn't like and write down one thing you could change next time.
At Digital Kodomo BASE, we think about the next strategy rather than blaming failures. The strength to not blame others is the power to move your own future.