On SNS, you can see a lot of people who are good at it, people who are popular, and people who seem to be having fun. Then, you may want to compare yourself.
Some comparison is natural, but too much of it can drain the fun out of things you actually enjoy.
Online posts only show part of the picture
What you see online is only part of another person's life. People usually show what went well, what looks good, or what they want others to notice.
When comparison starts taking the fun away, it helps to return to what you actually like doing instead of staring at someone else's highlight reel.
Return to what you actually enjoy
It's easier to get back to what you want to do and what you like.
Children who value their own pace more than other people's numbers or how they look can enjoy it for a longer time.
If you catch yourself comparing too much, step away and spend time on something you genuinely enjoy.
At Digital Kodomo BASE, we value regaining one's own pace rather than weakening by comparison. If you compare too much, even fun things will become painful.