There are days when I feel tired even though I'm with friends. I didn't respond curtly, I couldn't join in the fun, I didn't know what to say. Problems with friendships can be difficult to see, which can make them difficult.
It is not strange to struggle with friendships sometimes. People have different moods, needs, and ways of thinking.
You can adjust the distance
Some people get tired if you get too close. Step away for a while, talk to someone else, make time for yourself. This is not an escape. This is an adjustment to protect your heart.
I can't decide alone
Before you immediately decide that someone doesn't like you, separate fact from imagination. It is true that the reply was short. However, I can only imagine whether or not he was turned off. If you have a problem, talk to an adult you trust.
If you're worried about a friend, try writing down one "fact" and one "your imagination."
At Digital Kodomo BASE, we value a place where children can feel safe. Even on days when you're worried about your friendships, don't be too hard on yourself and try to sort things out little by little.
Check In a friend worry, protect what first?