While SNS is fun, there are some things you can avoid if you know about them before you start. If you decide on small rules in advance, it will be easier for you and your friends to follow them.
I tell them that it is important not to determine their feelings or value based solely on whether they have been read or how quickly they respond.
Speed is not all about feeling
You may feel anxious if the response is slow. However, the other person also has plans, moods, and circumstances. It can be difficult to decide that someone doesn't like you just based on how fast you are.
You can protect your own time too.
Kindness is not just about responding immediately. It is important to calmly respond and to return the favor later if you are unable to do so now.
If you're curious about the answer, close the screen and do something else for 5 minutes.
At Digital Kodomo BASE, we value the preparation to protect ourselves as much as the fun of connecting. Thinking before you start will give you a lot of peace of mind later.
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